Ways to Make Doggy Style Even Sexier
Although most couples have probably tried to spice things up by switching to doggy style every once in a while, you probably aren’t experimenting with it enough. Studies have shown that almost 30% of women prefer doggy style over the other traditional sex positions, and other surveys indicate that doggy style might be the most popular style amongst both genders. In fact, it might be the best position for hitting the G-spot.
In case you aren’t already familiar, doggy is a type of rear entry where the receiving partner faces away, typically on their hands and knees. With vaginal sex, rear entry lends itself to deeper penetration and G-spot stimulation — and the benefits don’t stop there. It also allows for deeper penetration with anal sex, introducing the possibility of anal orgasm.Thrusting in this position is all about the hips, so if the giving partner experiences lower back pain, doggy may help take some of the pressure off.
If you’ve given doggy style a try but haven’t felt like you’re reaching your maximum pleasure, it might just be a matter of tailoring a few details to suit you and your partner’s needs. Here are some ways you can improve doggy style and really take the whole sexual experience to the next level.
1.Prop Yourself Up With Pillows
Because this is a slightly unnatural pose for both of you, make sure that you’re both entirely comfortable. Place pillows under your knees or stomach for a little added cushioning, and if you need to, find things to brace yourself on so that you don’t get too achy. Slip a pillow under your knees. This will help to distribute your weight evenly so there isn’t as much pressure or friction on your knees.Stack to your heart’s content. If the receiving partner is feeling strained, stack pillows, blankets, or other cushioning until it creates an even surface to rest on.
2.Focus on Stimulating Your Partner With Your Hands
The more the person from behind massages the other partner’s genitals, the more intense the whole experience can become. Plus, most women can’t achieve climax with penetration alone, so give your lady a little extra handsy attention. Tag team your erogenous zones. Use one of your hands to stimulate your nipples while your partner pulls your hair, or have your partner nibble your ear while you run your hands along your torso.
3.Try It in Front of the Mirror
Many people dislike the fact that doggy style prohibits eye contact during sex. The person on the bottom is especially unable to see their partner, but by strategically placing a mirror nearby, you’ll be able to enjoy each other visually and physically.
4. Grab a vibrator
This is sound advice for literally any sex position. But unlike, say, the missionary sex position where you have to pick an itty bitty vibe that’ll fit between your bodies, in doggy style you don’t. Take advantage of the position and use a bigger vibrator, like a wand vibe, on yourself.
With wands, not only can you easily stimulate your clit, but because wand-vibrators are so damn rumbly (as opposed to bullet vibrators, which are usually more Razor-phone-on-vibrate buzzy), the person doing the penetrating can feel that vibration on their penis or dildo while inside you.
5. Bring in butt play
If you’re into it, this is the easiest position to switch from vaginal sex to anal since your butt is (obviously) right there. Speaking of anal play… You can also keep going for vaginal penetration and spice things waaay up with a toy designed to go in and stay in the backdoor: the butt plug. A butt plug is going to press into the vaginal canal, which can make some of the internal hot-spots like the G-spot and A-spot more likely to get hit with every stroke. Another anal toy you can try is anal beads. Butt plugs go in and stay put, creating pleasurable pressure. But it actually isn’t the anal canal that’s dense with nerve-endings—it’s the anal opening. After the initial push-in, butt plugs don’t actually stimulate those nerves unless they vibrate. Anal beads, however, which are designed to be inserted and removed over and over, do Woot! Doggy style puts the receiver in an awesome position for the penetrator to insert and remove the string during sex.
6. Get It On Somewhere New
The best part about doggy style is that it doesn’t even require a bed. Try it in the shower, standing on a staircase while holding onto the banister, or leaning over the kitchen counter. You could even bust it out in the car, if your backseat is big enough.
7. Rough things up
If both partners are on board with rough play, the receiver is all but at the giver’s mercy with this position. Start slow with light spanking and back scratching before working up to rougher choke holds and whips.
The bottom line
The most important thing is that you and your partner are on the same page and having a good time. If you try these techniques and aren’t a fan, that’s OK! This move isn’t for everyone, and you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. Talk to your partner about what is or isn’t working, and go from there. There’s plenty more to experiment with!
