How to Ride him Like a Pro

 

Sex should be anything but monotonous. While romantic kisses and the casual love making sessions have their place in our bedrooms, sometimes it’s nice to break free and do something exciting and adventurous.

What can be more thrilling than a woman taking control in the bedroom and riding him like a pro?

When it comes to a romantic relationship, women are mostly taught the importance of better sex, orgasm, or relationships but nobody tells you the nitty-gritty of how they can improve the techniques and they are left with little knowledge about precisely HOW to spice up their relationships. For this reason, many women think that they won’t be required to get on top during sex with their man because they don’t know how to ride him properly. Some women say that they’re afraid of embarrassing themselves, others make excuses because being on top is too tiring and others just admit that they don’t know how to ride a man well (we hope this is not you).

Don’t worry – this blog post is meant to help all those ladies who want to please their men but don’t know exactly how to do it. Here are some tips on how to ride a guy until he feels like he is in heaven (thank us after).

 

Tips Tips Tips!

• Be Extra Careful When Sitting on Top of Your Guy – People don’t mention this tip a lot, but it’s important to position yourself on top of your man properly so that you can see his face comfortably. Besides, if you position yourself well, you will be able to ride his dick for a long time before you get tired. When your man’s dick is hard, the penis is not flexible and sitting on it wrongly and pressing it down with all your body weight might result in much strain and pain. Make sure to find his natural angle and put your pelvis in a position you and the guy are both comfortable in. Every guy has a different angle, so don’t assume you’ll be able to climb on top and start riding him just like that. If you, do it wrong, it will make you tired faster and it could even hurt him. Just a warning though- when you ride him enthusiastically, don’t let his penis slip out because if it does, it might result in some painful injuries!

 

• Be Creative During The Ride! –When you are on top of him and in control, ask your man some sexy questions. A sexy, confident woman in control will ask her guy some dirty questions with a lot of confidence. You can also bend over to his face and kiss him as you tell him to kiss you on the neck, grab your boobs or your waist. Ask him what he likes and how he likes it. Kink tip: spit in his mouth lick his neck and make eye contact. Tell him how big he is and how much you love him inside of you.

• Learn The Motion of The Ocean – Your guy would enjoy this so much, and he wouldn’t get tired of it. Sex should go hand on hand with passion and so while you ride on him, you can lay down flat on him, kiss him, maintain an eye-contact, touch cheek to cheek and move slowly and gently. While you do that, maintain a rolling and a steady rhythm kind of movement described as the motion of the ocean, on your man. By doing it gently, you will ride your guy for a long time without getting tired.

 

• Relax And Enjoy Every Bit Of It! – Keep it one hundred, girl. Enjoy every bit of the ride. Change angles, look at the face of your man, turn back and let that guy face your ass, grind on him, and do anything that will make you feel worthy. Bounce on him and when you are about to cum, shake like you have been electrocuted. If your guy loves calling out when having sex, then listen to his mourning and drive him crazier, you shouldn’t get tired at that point.

 

• Turn Around And Face The Opposite Direction- Most men love when girls face the other side and when you do that, your guy will likely grab your ass or caress it. Meanwhile, you can ride on him as you play with your clit and make nasty facial expressions. If by chance your guy is a breast man, turn around for a short while and then switch back again so that he can enjoy touching them. However, some men can get tired touching your boobs and wish to see the back. So, keep changing your direction.

 

 

• Confidence Is Key- This is another free tip. You can’t achieve most of the things in life without being confident, including an incredible sex drive. Confidence brings motivation, and you can’t get tired if you believe in yourself. Most men want to see this. There is nothing that turns on a guy than a woman who is horny and asks for sex first. If you are confident, you will just show your man that you want it, get his dick out from his boxers, make him hard and take your role as the pilot.

 

• Juice Your Guy – A woman should know how to drive a guy crazy by grinding on him. Grinding is a process in which two surfaces rub to cause friction. However, you can up your game by squeezing and pulling away from him thus creating some friction. When you squeeze your man and ring him out, it drives him crazy, and it will be evident on his face. However, don’t do it continuously as he might get tired of it. You can grind him for a little while, go up and down and then juice him. Many guys would love you to do this.

 

• Put Some Music That You Can Go Along With- Music is entertaining, and many songs are about passion and romance. The rhythm of this kind of music can be influential on the way you are riding your man. Moreover, he doesn’t get bored and tired in the process as music is soothing. Get yourself some exceptionally slow jams like Soul, R&B or Blues and press play before you jump on top of him. Guys will prefer you put some music that is also good for them so that when you get tired, he can flip you over and ride you himself.

 

• You Need To Be In Partnership In Case One Gets Tired – You got to be a cowgirl on him and make that guy understand you need to work together towards one goal. Most men prefer to go first until they are sweaty and tired. After he’s done, are you going just to sleep there? Not really. You will come on top and captain the vessel. That’s the best position for a girl and when you put your man down, make sure he relaxes while you take over and do the riding. When you work together, you get a more extended sex drive, and also you get to please your man. That sex is not for you only but both of you so you need to involve the guy fully.

Want to know more? : Here some of the Best Girl On Top Sex Positions as reminder!

• Cowgirl –I feel like the ‘standard’ girl on top sex position for riding your man is Cowgirl as demonstrated in the above illustration. It’s simple and straightforward, you just sit down on your man’s penis and rest your weight on your knees.

• Man Missionary –Perhaps even easier is the Man Missionary position. It’s like a variation of Cowgirl where you just need to lean forward and rest yourself on top of your man and your elbows/forearms.

• Asian Cowgirl –If you want your man to thrust up into you when you’re riding him, then try using the Asian Cowgirl position. You simply need to squat down onto your man and stay in position. You can then place your hands on his legs to help support yourself. If you want to lean forward, you can rest your hands on his chest or the bed. This is called the Fast Fuck position.

• Reverse Cowgirl –Reverse Cowgirl is exactly as it sounds, you’re going to be performing the regular cowgirl position on your man, but in reverse. So, you’ll be facing his feet instead of his face for this one. I really enjoyed this position when I first began learning how to ride my man as I didn’t have to worry about eye contact.

• Crab –As your confidence builds with your man, I highly recommend the Crab position, especially if you like the idea of putting on a show for him. Sit down in your man’s lap with your feet either side of his shoulders and lean back, placing your hands on his legs to support yourself like in the illustration above.

There you go ladies, we hope this info confirm what you already know or give you some more ideas of things you can do in the bedroom to drive him madly crazy about you! Remember practice makes perfect!

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