Everything You Need To Know About Orgasms

Pleasure is not a  luxury, it is a necessity.

Magic word for sure! Don we want plenty, plenty orgasms?

Many people regard the orgasm as the peak of sexual excitement. It is a powerful feeling of physical pleasure and sensation. There is still more for researchers to know about the orgasm, and over the past century, theories about the orgasm and its nature have shifted. 

Why do we want them so bad? Well here some facts about orgasms!

• Orgasms release endorphins, known as feel-good hormones, which may make people feel sleepy, relaxed, or happy afterwards. If you want to feel good for sure let your partner do their thing or just fly solo or play or play with your favorite Sex Toy, male or female vibrators of all types or a male masturbator will take you to climax every time you wish! . 
• Orgasms do not only occur during sexual stimulation. 
• People of all genders can experience orgasm disorders 

 

What happens during an orgasm? 

During an orgasm, people may experience an intense feeling of pleasure in the genitals and throughout the body.

Orgasming is usually marked by a series of physical sensations, including: involuntary release of muscle tension, series of muscular contractions, moaning out of pleasure and increased heart and breathing rate.

Orgasms can feel different for each individual and keep in mind  reaching orgasm doesn’t require a partner.

How best would you describe your orgasms? 

After an orgasm, the face, neck, or chest may flush. People may also feel sleepy, relaxed, or happy ( I know I do) afterwards due to the release of endorphins. 

Types of Orgasms

There are many different types of orgasms, we thought you may like to see them listed: 

• Clitoral orgasm: You can often feel these orgasms on the surface of the body, like a tingly feeling along your skin, and in your brain. 
• Vaginal orgasm: These orgasms are deeper in the body and are usually accompanied by pulsations of the vaginal canal walls. When the G-spot — a specific spot about 2 inches inside the front vaginal wall — is stimulated, it can result in ejaculation. 
• Blended orgasm: When the vagina and the clitoris are stimulated at the same time, it tends to result in a more explosive orgasm. Sometimes these combo orgasms are accompanied by full-body trembles and tremors. 
• Anal orgasm: During anal orgasm, the muscle contractions you feel will primarily be in the anal canal and around the anal sphincter. (And not inside the vagina).  
• G-spot orgasm: An orgasm can occur as a result of stimulation of the G-spot. 

• Erogenous– Stimulating less common erogenous parts of the body (ears, nipples, neck, elbows, knees, etc.) can cause a pleasurable release when kissed and played with. Some people describe the orgasm that follows as being more full-body, compared to other kinds of orgasms. 
• Convulsing– After a long buildup  you should experience these amazing orgasms. Edging (getting yourself close to orgasm without going over repeatedly);  it is suggested to make you go there!
• Other less common but sure to happen are: Coregasm (Also known as exercise-induced orgasms, they occur during workouts), Breath Orgasm (focused breathing can enhance orgasms) and Fantasy Orgasm (If you have a good imagination, experts say you can take your daydreams into orgasm territory with nothing more than a bit of naughty thinking).

 

Bringing yourself to orgasm is a bit like cooking. Just like you’ll need slightly different ingredients for different types of meals, you’ll need slightly different tools and touches for different kinds of orgasms.

Check out with us some tips on how to explore different types of orgasms. 

Thank goodness pleasure isn’t dependent and neither are you;  you can take control of your own pleasure and orgasms whether you are alone or in a relationship. The better you know your rhythm with fingers or with toys, the faster you can teach a partner how you like to be stimulated. 

 How to explore the clitoral orgasm 

To feel a delicate stimulation make sure to use some lube. Massage your clitoris  by placing your fingers firmly on the skin on either side of your vaginal opening and pressing down to rub the area with the fingers, palm, or tongue in a back and forth or circular motion .  If you learn how to play with your own genitalia, trust me you will not stop having orgasms.

 

How to explore orgasm from vaginal penetration  

Truth is vaginal orgasms can be really pleasurable for people who can have them. There is this cultural belief however that vaginal orgasms are better than any other kind of orgasm. Would you agree ?  

Steps to have a vaginal orgasm 

1. Foreplay is key. Once aroused and lubricated enough for penetration, try inserting a finger, penis, or wand toy into your vaginal canal. 
2. Angle the toy or body part doing the penetrating toward the belly button, and make a enticing motion. This can stimulate the G-spot, and feels good for some people. 
3. Explore using different pressures along this hot-spot until you find a pressure that feels good. 
4. Repeat motions that feel good so that the feelings will build up. 

 

How to explore the anal orgasm 

Anal orgasms are something that anyone can have, however, what causes the orgasm is different among men or women. 

For men, anal penetration can stimulate the prostate, which is a nerve-dense erogenous zone that’s analogous to the G-spot.  For women, anal penetration can stimulate the clitoral legs, as well as the A-spot or G-spot. 

 

Steps to have an anal orgasm 

1. Start by rubbing the outside of the anal opening with a finger or tongue, while also stimulating the front genitals. 
2. Next, get the anal canal accustomed to being penetrated with lube and a finger. Key word here: Lube. Butts don’t naturally produce lubricant and the tissues in the anal canal are very delicate, which means the area is very prone to microtears when there’s inadequate lubrication. 
3. Experiment with tapping, circling, and pressing against the wall. 

 

How to explore the combo or blend orgasm  

To achieve a combo orgasm, combine clitoral and vaginal stimulation simultaneously, either in parallel or opposite rhythms — whatever feels best for you or your partner. Combining clitoral stimulation with vaginal stimulation is also the most common way to help someone squirt. Pro suggests: Wait until the receiver is thoroughly aroused before adding in penetrative play. 

How to explore the erogenous zone orgasm 

Erogenous zone orgasms are achieved exclusively through a lot of experimentation. Yes, the more you explore yourself the more pleasure you will experience. . 

Normally you can experience them from kisses on your neck, teeth or on your nipples. 

The best way to find your erogenous zones is to use a soft item like feather, silk or another light external object and keep monitoring where  you feel the most pleasure. 

If lips and fingers alone don’t cut it, you might try incorporating sensation toys like a Wartenberg wheel, a feather teaser, or a tassel. 

  

The ‘female’ orgasm vs. the ‘male’ orgasm 

Statistically, women report fewer orgasms than men.

When it comes to male vs. female orgasm, it’s much more difficult for women to orgasm via penetrative sex alone. According to the sex  experts as much as 80 percent of women don’t orgasm through just intercourse.

Want to know the differences between the orgasms a vagina owner can have and a penis owner can have? All orgasms are similar, and all orgasms are slightly different. Typically, the orgasms vagina havers experience are longer lasting (approximately 20 to 35 seconds) than the orgasm a penis owner has (usually under 15 seconds). Keep in mind that ejaculation and orgasm are different. 

Male orgasm and male ejaculation are two different biological processes that don’t need to happen at the same time. Many men are able to reach orgasm without ejaculating, and report these orgasms as being similar to the orgasms a woman has. 

Reminder: It doesn’t take two to have an exhilarating, empowering sex life. Masturbation is good for your health and your sexual encounters with your partner.

Communication is key to enhance your sexual pleasure: 

Communication is key if you want your partner to know what turns you on and how to get you off . Not only does communicating enable you to ask for ongoing consent , but telling a partner what you want, how, and where is the best way to make sure you experience  maximum pleasure. Dont expect him/her  to be a mind reader, it will simply not happen. Choose the right moment and get that talk started. 

In closing

No matter how much we guide you there is not such thing as manual when it comes to orgasms. Get to know your body, be openminded and let your partner  come in the game. 

One orgasm at a time is pretty good, you don’t need to have all of them at the same time.

We are and feel different, therefore pleasure is different and  Orgasms are different. Elevate your intimate moments, incorporating sex toys in  your life is for sure a great way to find out and know about yourself and what your partner likes the most. Bottom line,  orgasms are about  experimenting, communicating, and trying again.