How to Deepthroat – A Complete Guide

 

The term throat goat has been attained by a select few. Maybe you’ve seen videos on deepthroating and wanted to try it for yourself. The throat goat title is not obtained overnight and you weren’t born with the ability to stick a cock down your throat but with some tips, tricks, and lots and lots of practice you’ll be the expert in no time!

This deepthroat guide will touch on various techniques that will help you control your gag reflex and give your partner the most mind-blowing experience.

 

What is Deep Throating?

For the beginners, deep throating is a type of blow job where the receiver allows for the penis to go deep in the mouth and into the throat, hitting the back of the throat. You may enjoy deep throating your man if you like being dominated in the bedroom.

 

The Enemy : The Gag Reflex

According to Headline.com “The gag reflex, also called the pharyngeal reflex, is a contraction of the throat that happens when something touches the roof of your mouth, the back of your tongue or throat, or the area around your tonsils. This reflexive action helps to prevent choking and keeps us from swallowing potentially harmful substances.”

The Gag Reflex is your body’s response to having something too far in the back of your mouth. It is triggered when something touches the back of your tongue, throat, or roof of your mouth. Depending on the size of the object this can make you cough, bring up bile or even throw up in some cases.

Unless you happen to be the chosen one and have absolutely no gag reflex then this may very well be your biggest obstacle when attempting to deep throat. The most important aspect in deep throat training is through the process of desensitizing your gag reflex. Once you get this under control deep throating becomes a breeze.

 

 

How to Reduce your Gag Reflex

Finger or Toothbrush Method – Start off with your fingers, see how far and deep you can push them into your mouth and down your throat. When you eventually gag (because you will) stop for a second and then resume and repeat. For a deeper feel try a toothbrush. The mission is to get the body completely relaxed and accustomed to having something deep in that area. Also keep in mind to always breathe throw your nose and get a healthy flow of air. This will help lessen your body’s gag response. To get even more advanced, you can try a suction cup dildo. Stick the dildo to the wall and keep practicing using the same technique as with your finger and toothbrush.

 

Pressure Point – It is natural to feel uncomfortable or nervous about deepthroating especially if you gag when simply brushing your teeth. There is an old dentistry trick that uses a pressure point in your left hand to reduce your gag reflex. You close your left hand over your left thumb to make a fist.

By squeezing your hand, not tight enough to cause pain, you put pressure on your thumb which puts pressure on the targeted point. Do this while practicing deepthroating and you will see a significant change in your gag response.

 

Tips on reducing your Gag Reflex:

1. Be consistent
2. Use lube
3. Use throat sprays
4. Relax your throat
5. Remember to breathe

 

How to Deepthroat Your Guy

 

1. Establish strong communication
2. Take it slow and loosen up your mouth
3. Start with a regular blow job
4. Look into his eyes while performing
5. Position your neck and throat well
6. Hydration and lubrication
7. Play with sounds like moaning and even gagging (when you are an expert)
8. Lick his balls
9. Use more than just your mouth, get handsy!
10. Swallow while deepthroating (Advanced)
11. Take rests and breaks
12. Be in control

 

 

According to School of Squirt;

The Best Positions For Deep Throating 

1. The Bed Surfer

 

This position makes the act of taking a penis deep inside your throat easier. The angle of your head and mouth makes it way easier to slip it in and go deep. This is when the giver lies on their back with the head positioned off the edge of the bed. The receiver then stands at their partner’s head and the receiver slides their penis into their mouth and down their throat. As the giver bends their head backwards, the throat naturally extends, the tonsils go to the side and the tongue lies flat. This is also an erotic visual for the receiver as they can see the neck expand as their penis goes in deep!

 

The penetrating partner usually controls the speed and intensity of the fellatio by thrusting in and out of their partner’s mouth. However, the receiving partner can take a little control by placing their hands on their partner’s waist, thighs, or hips. This contact can encourage thrusting that suits the receiving partner better.

Have you ever tried this position?

 

2. Boss’s Chair

For this next position Have your guy sit in a recliner with his pants down and his legs spread. Kneel between his legs and take his shaft into his mouth. Use your best blowjob techniques and then start taking his shaft deeper and deeper into your mouth until you are deepthroating him.

As your guy is sitting and cannot easily thrust upwards, the Boss’ Chair position gives you complete control over the movement. This can make deepthroat training easier if you are just starting out.

This position is perfect for deploying for advanced deepthroat moves such as licking your guy’s balls and moaning and gagging on purpose.

 

3. Sixty Nine

This classic position is perfect for you to show that you are the true throat goat!

Because you are essentially lying on your stomach on top of your partner and their penis is facing your throat, your neck automatically extends, and you can take their penis down deeply. This can be a trickier position for first timers or for those who can’t concentrate during oral sex.

Have your guy lie on his back while you straddle his face. Lower your head until you can start to give him a blowjob. Use his favorite blowjob techniques until you feel comfortable enough to start deepthroating him!

If your man’s cock bends slightly upwards, the Sixty-Nine position can make deepthroating easier as the curvature of his penis will follow the natural shape of your mouth and throat.

The Sixty-Nine position gives you a range of ways to spice up your deepthroat. You can use your fingers to fondle your guy’s balls and even give him a rim job -he’ll be so amazed and be begging for more!

 

Final Thoughts

 Deepthroating is not necessary to be able to pleasure your partner. It is also not something that will come to just anyone naturally, it takes time, skill and patience! Try to master all the oral sex skills before you move to the deepthroating! Have fun, be enthusiastic and do not be upset if you gag or cannot do it the first time around! It takes time, don’t give up and most importantly: HAVE FUN!