The Best Blowjob Tips And Techniques

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Lick, Lick, Lick It

Licking his penis is a powerful blow job technique for beginning your blow job. It serves as a sort of oral sex foreplay that will build sexual tension and have him begging you to take him in your mouth…which is exactly what you want.

Licking his cock is super easy. At it’s simplest, you just need to hold his penis in your hands and use your tongue to lick it. You’ll find that licking him from the base to the tip works really well. But don’t stop here, there are a bunch of other licking techniques that you can use during your blow job:

Focus on the Tip – The top part or glans of your man’s penis [1] is the most sensitive part, specifically the underside of his glans [2], but if your man is circumcised then it will be slightly less sensitive. The bottom side, where the head connects to his shaft, is known as the frenulum and is also incredibly sensitive. Although, some studies find that the whole glans is sensitive with no one part more sensitive than the other [3],Try focusing on licking the tip of his penis (the glans) using the least amount of pressure possible. Many guys report this being their absolute favourite blow job technique. You can even try doing this for your entire blow job until he comes. More on oral pleasuring the tip of his penis.

The Topside of your Tongue – The top side of your tongue provides slightly more stimulation than the underside thanks to the rough surface your taste buds create. So focus on using the top side of your tongue when licking him.

His Balls – Don’t forget about his balls. His balls are as sensitive as his penis, and for some guys, even more sensitive.

Anilingus – There are two other excellent locations besides his penis and balls that can massively add to his pleasure and make him see you as an oral sex goddess even if they are not strictly part of a regular BJ.

His perineum or perineal raphe, the rough patch of skin located just behind his balls as well as his anus contain a lot of nerve endings. The root of his penis lies beneath this skin, behind the perineum, so you can stimulate it through his perineum. Some guys adore having these two areas licked and stimulated while others don’t like it at all. It’s a personal preference, and it all depends on your man.

Tonguing these areas, up and down, or in a circular motion is an awesome way to stimulate them. You can even press your tongue inwards on his anus to provide a different, but still pleasurable sensation. This technique is called anilingus.

Taint-To-Tip – A technique that works great if your man has a sensitive perineum (taint) or balls is to slowly lick him from his perineum all the way to the tip of his penis. Doing this in one slow, continuous lick is best.

You’ll also find that it’s easiest to do when you use your hand or just a finger to press his penis against his belly.

Wetter Is Better

Ask any guy, and they will tell you the same thing: Super wet blow jobs feel best. Ideally, you will easily be able to produce lots of saliva on command, but that’s not always easy.

Two tricks to producing more saliva are:

Chewing gum right before going down on him.
Eating a piece of juicy fruit before you start blowing him (like a strawberry or pineapple or peach).

Of course, these two tricks aren’t always practical.

A much easier and more reliable way to make your blow jobs super-wet is to use edible lube. Just keep some handy in a drawer beside your bed or in your purse.

This also means that you will have lube handy in case you need some for sex

Deep Throating Solution – One quick way to produce lots of saliva is to deep throat your man. Here’s why it works:

When his penis touches the back of your throat, it will stimulate your gag reflex. This triggers your body to quickly produce lots of saliva. So, if you both enjoy deep throat, this is the perfect technique to give your man a wet, sloppy blow job.

Kissing

Kissing the tip of his penis is a fabulous technique to start off your blow job and draw out the length of it…perfect if you like seeing and hearing your man squirm in beautiful agony. Kissing his penis and balls is easy, just think back to how you kiss him normally (on the lips)…

Purse your lips together and give him small “pecks.”
Open your lips slightly so that you can gently squeeze the tip of his penis between them.
With saliva on your lips, gently run them over his penis.
Use your lips to gently suck on the top of his penis.

Enjoying Yourself & Putting On A Show

You know that fulfilling feeling of seeing your man in deep pleasure, close to orgasm, and unable to control himself?

It’s incredibly hot. Well, here’s a secret about most men…They feel the exact same way about you.They get off to seeing you enjoy yourself. Keep this in mind the next time you go down on your man. If you are already naturally enjoying yourself as you give him a blow job, awesome! Of course, there are other ways to further enjoy yourself during your blow job.

Try masturbating and bringing yourself to orgasm as you blow him.

This serves multiple purposes:

It put’s on a show for your man (most men get visually turned on).
You show your man how much you are enjoying yourself, giving him a blow job, which is a pretty great way to satisfy his ego.
You get to orgasm too!

Awesome Sauce

Using the same techniques over and over can eventually become boring for your man (and you!), so it’s best to have a few tricks up your sleeve to change things up at a moment’s notice.

Some women think that to vary things; they need an endless list of blow job techniques and different things they can do with their mouth or tongue or lips to provide different sensations to their man. The truth is, you don’t. There are much simpler ways to spice up your blow job routine.

One way is by adding “Awesome Sauce” to your blow jobs. Awesome Sauce is just using something like maple syrup, chocolate syrup, cream, champagne, ice cream, or even ice cubes in your mouth while you go about your regular blow job routine. Here are a few tips on using each.

Maple Syrup/Chocolate Syrup/Cream – All of these tasty treats work super well because they taste great, AND they provide a different but very enjoyable sensation to your husband as you fellate him. Just make sure that if you are using warm chocolate syrup that it’s not so hot that it burns him!

Ice Cubes/Ice Cream – Cold sensations are not the most popular type of Awesome Sauce during oral sex, but they still work well for switching things up and keeping your man on his toes.

Champagne – There is something intensely sexy about champagne, especially when you use it during a BJ. The next time you and your man have some alone time, try slipping into some lingerie and popping open a bottle of champagne. Next, have a little sip and with the champagne in your mouth, take your man in your mouth and start performing fellatio on him.

The bubbles provide your man with new and different sensations, but it’s not just that. There is something about the entire act of giving your man a champagne blow job and making him cum that is super arousing and sexy. Don’t like champagne? A fizzy soda can do the trick.

Mints – Mint naturally creates a cooling sensation. If you suck one before going down, you don’t have to juggle the mint and his penis in your mouth at the same time.

The added benefit of having champagne or ice cream or anything tasty in your mouth is that it drowns out the taste of his sperm and semen when he does ejaculate. Perfect if you can’t stand how he tastes.

Pro tip: To prevent the champagne flowing out of your mouth, make sure you are below your man when giving him head, so being on your knees while he is standing works well here.

Using the same techniques over and over can eventually become boring for your man (and you!), so it’s best to have a few tricks up your sleeve to change things up at a moment’s notice.

One way is by adding what I like to call “Awesome Sauce” to your blow jobs. Awesome Sauce is just using something like maple syrup, chocolate syrup, cream, champagne, ice cream, or even ice cubes in your mouth while you go about your regular blow job routine. Here are a few tips on using each.

Ice Cubes/Ice Cream – Cold sensations are not the most popular type of Awesome Sauce during oral sex, but they still work well for switching things up and keeping your man on his toes.

Mints – Mint naturally creates a cooling sensation. If you suck one before going down, you don’t have to juggle the mint and his penis in your mouth at the same time.

Pro tip: To prevent the champagne flowing out of your mouth, make sure you are below your man when giving him head, so being on your knees while he is standing works well here.

Reference: Bad Girls Bible