Rimming : A Guide To Rim Jobs
Whether you are an expert in butt play or just looking for something new and adventurous, rim jobs can be fun and exciting for you and your partner. It’s an opportunity to explore even more pleasurable sensations!
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What is Anal Rimming?
Anal rimming, also known as analingus or a rim job, is the act of orally stimulating a partner’s anus. Licking, kissing, and sucking can stimulate the sensitive nerve endings in and around the anus and rectum.
With thoughtful safer sex practices and clear communication, rimming can be a pleasurable sexual activity for persons of all genders and sexual orientations.
Analingus, or rimming, has grown in practice thanks to people wanting to engage in a sexual behavior that’s a little taboo. There are some people who are intimidated by the practice and worry about the hygienic nature of it. People find it erotic thanks to the thousands of nerve endings around the anus. It can be a practice that is easy to incorporate into your sexual routine.
How to give a Rim Job?
- Talk to your partner first: Have a conversation and communicate your interest in rim jobs. Ensure you communicate to your partner why this act peaked your interest, why you want to try it and encourage them to want to try it with you. Once you have consent you can start your research!
- Clean up first: The key to safe and great rimming is to practice good hygiene first. Before anal play, wash your butt hole with some warm water and soap and ensure to go to the bathroom earlier in the day. Ensure the area is clean before anyone sticks their tongue in! You can use an anal douche if you are still worried about cleanliness but not it is not completely necessary.
- Go slow: When doing the deed, make sure to start of slow, gently passing your tongue on the anus. Make sure your mouth is as wet and spitty as possible. This allows a smooth glide and intense pleasure. You can kiss, lick , suck, use all your foreplay techniques and turn your partner on!
- Experiment with different techniques: Once you’re comfortable and your partner seems to be getting into it, switch it up! Try different positions and different techniques. You can even introduce some fingers or even a toy. Use lots of lube or spit if penetrating the butt hole. There are specific toys used for anal. You can use a prostate massager, anal beads, butt plugs and so many more!
Final Thoughts and things to keep in mind;
- If you are going down on a female, be sure to do the act of rimming last. You don’t want to transfer any bacteria from the anus to the vagina!
- Everyone has hair around their anus so don’t be alarmed. If you are going down on someone with more hair than anticipated just part the way and start licking or you can even discuss rom before to shave or get waxed.
- Bathe together first as a sexy way to get cleaned before the big show
- If you want more stimulation try using a vibrator while getting rimmed
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