How To Be A Freak In Bed

There comes a time where you are ready to turn things up in the bedroom. Be a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets! Everyone eventually wants to know how to become a freak in bed but do you really want to know what it takes? If so, then keep reading. You want to know what turn your partner on in bed, what really blows their mind and how you can start doing it.

This journey is a fun and self-discovering journey. You will learn the most intimate things about yourself and your partner.

Tips to be a Freaky Freak

Note: There is no one way or right way to be a freak, what may seem freaky to you may not to others and viceversa so take this information as it relates to you and your partner.

 

1. Explore your sexuality first

The best way to learn how to be a freak in bed is to explore your sexuality. Whether it’s through porn or experimenting with a partner, try things out that you usually don’t do while having sex. For example, if spanking videos turn you on, try spanking your partner and see how you feel.

Once you start to explore sexual acts outside of your comfort zone, you’ll get to understand yourself better.

 

2. Be open to suggestions

Sex isn’t only about you. And people who are considered freaks in bed also spend a lot of time focusing and pleasing their partner. You need to think about your partner and their desires, as well. If your partner wants to have sex on the balcony or in a pool, maybe they want to use toys or want you to wear lingerie.

The first step to be a freak in bed is being open to the suggestion and be willing to try something even once to see if it’s something you’re into.

 

3. Have confidence

What’s the sexiest thing a person could wear? It’s confidence. I know that sounded a little cheesy, but it’s true. Perhaps you’re worried that your tummy is too round or that you don’t sound “hot enough” during sex. Your man is probably worried about the size of his penis and whether he can keep it up. So, take a deep breath and recognize that your flaws are magnified only to you and that you’re desirable. When you’re confident in bed, you let go and are present at the moment.

 

4. Get out of your routine

A routine isn’t ideal if you want to be a freak in the sheets. It’s all about spontaneity and doing things out of the ordinary to mix things up in the bedroom. There are no rules about how to get out of a routine. Just make sure you’re having sex at different times and different places. Try a variety of positions. Chances are you’ll realize how often you have sex in the same way and at the same time, especially if you’ve been having sex with the same person for some time, as you try to break the routine. Sex probably starts in a predictable manner, too.

 

5. Initiate Sex

Men often complain that women never initiate sex. This makes them feel less desirable. You probably think your man is super sexy and are worried about how you look or feel, whether he wants sex and not embarrassing yourself. But once you get over all those things and initiate sex, your man will be surprised, and you’ll feel powerful.

 

Ideas to get Freaky and toys that can be used;

1. Anal Play – For starters, anal foreplay can happen by rimming your partner or giving/receiving an anal massage with a toy, finger, dildo, or penis. But keep in mind anal foreplay can absolutely be the main event meaning nothing (not even penetration) must come after it, but it can.

Toy of choice: Anal Plug – Check it Out

 

2. Prostate Play – If your man is freaky, too, then you’ve got to try this. He can learn how to become multiply orgasmic and experience more intense orgasms through prostate play.

Toy of choice:  Prostate Massager– Check it Out

 

3. BDSM- BDSM is an umbrella term that refers to a spectrum of sexual behaviours and preferences that can be divided up into the groups of bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism.

Toy of choice: Bondage Set – Check it Out

 

4. Roleplaying- Role-play is when you take on the persona of someone else while having sex. For example, a couple may have sex while pretending to be strangers who met at a bar or acting out a scene where one person is royalty, and the other is a servant. The role-play can be as developed and complex or as simple as you like: You can incorporate costumes, backstories, and music to set the scene, or you can just narrate what you’re doing from a different perspective. The point is just to use your imagination to heighten sexual pleasure, tap into sexual fantasies, and play with creativity and self-expression.

Toy of choice: School girl – Check it Out

 

5. Public Sex- There’s something about knowing others can (or could possibly) see or hear you that makes the sex so much hotter. We do caution against doing anything that could get you arrested and avoid areas where children are!

Toy of choice: Vibrating Panties – Check it Out

 

6. Threesomes, Swinging and Group Sex- Not every relationship is ideal for adding people, but the right relationships can flourish by increasing the number of people in the bedroom! There are a few things you can consider:

• Swinging is when you swap partners.
• Group sex or orgies involve multiple people.
• Threesomes can be tricky to organize but can be well worth it.

Toy of choice:  Double sided dildo– Check it Out

7. Edging- Edging involves sexual stimulation and stopping just before the point of orgasm. Edging aims to extend a person’s sexual enjoyment for longer periods. It may also intensify the experience.

Toy of choice: Rabbit Vibrator – Check It Out

 

8. Phone/Cyber Sex – You might already be familiar with having sex over the phone or computer if you’re in a long-distance relationship. These activities help you to remain sexually intimate even when you can’t be physically intimate. But both of these activities are also great if you’re interested in being freaky in bed! These two freaky sexy ideas make things hot. Even if you’re in the other room, you can send a steamy message for your man. Or you can leave a voicemail when he’s in the shower. Consider calling him up before you go to bed. Masturbating while he’s on the other end of the line is hot and can even help you sleep better.

Toy of choice: Remote control Vibrator – Check it Out

 

Final Thoughts

If you thought there was an unspoken secret to becoming a freak in bed, well, that’s not the case. In reality, if you want to know how to be a freak in bed, you just do what feels right for you and take these tip and ideas and try them to let your inner freak out!