How to be a Freak in Bed to Drive him Crazy!
Gone are the days when men would love submissive and passive woman. Things are changing and according to them the preferences are changing as well. If you are a woman who want to impress your man in bed then you need to change your approaches.
Your man does not only want to fuck you, he needs more intense experiences as well, because after all just like women most guys enjoy a lot of different things in bed.
Maybe it’s about time for you to bring some excitement, kink BDSM in your sex life to actually make it more interesting. This blog is for all the women who want to make their sex life hotter.
So, what are some ways for you to become be a freak in bed? We are here to make some suggestions.
- Bring in some Kink
Sex is not all about lying down and having him pound your pussy (I’m begging you, don’t ever think like this). Sex is about the two of you enjoying the connection, share your deepest desires and making the sexual intercourse enjoyable and spicier every time. However, the regular sex positions do not serve anyone well so you have to try your best to keep things interesting in the bedroom or outside (do not limit sex to the bedroom literally). One great way to make your sex life fantabulous and that is by introducing some Kink.
If your partner has no idea about BDSM then it is time you watch some porn movies together involving BDSM practices. Start basic, perhaps one the first thing you need to get is a whip. You probably have no idea but your man would love spanking your butt as much as he would love to plug your asshole.
As you get familiar with BDSM be sure to move on to Blindfolds, Handcuffs or restraints. Tease him and let him Tease you, when you cannot see or move, your imagination is free to fill in the gaps. When you are deprived of your senses everything else becomes heightened.
Anticipation = Intense Pleasure
If you are a smart woman you will allow him to take you as he please, because after all if you both are in the same page about “great sex” you want to make it count every time possible. The kink will refresh your sexual life and you will thank this to the BDSM practices.
- Take charge in Bed
Traditional women like believing that man like passive girls (get that out of your mind). That is not true. Just like a woman a man has a vulnerable side as well and sometimes he needs his woman to exploit his vulnerable side.
During the sexual intercourse allow your man to take you missionary but at the same time pound him as well. How you can do that? You can ride him.
Take charge because sometimes that is all your man demands. Go slow, do not be in a hurry. Get comfortable on top and enjoy each other. Having your body over him is enough to drive him crazy. Arouse him even more by touching his genitals and whispering dirty things in his ears. As you ride him and now that you both got into a tempo is your time to shine, try different moves. You can ride him on the sides, front and back and not just up and down. Swirling on him gives him immense pleasure.
- Masturbate in front of him
One thing should not be considered during sex and that is ethics. There is no point to be ethical when you are naked in front of your man. You can be as gritty and bad as you want to be.
Most men love watching their woman masturbate themselves. A man would love to see how wet you are for him. Your partner would love to see you masturbate for him and learn about what arouse you more. If your sex life is losing your charm then maybe you need to learn how you can masturbate in front of your partner. Eye contact is important. Next time, when you are fingering your pussy or using your favorite vibrator in front of him make sure you are watching your man right in the eye. He would love to see how ready you are for him. Bring him in the game and get the sexual energy flowing by making out or stroking and caressing each other.
Showing your partner how you like to be touched is a great way to bring you closer to each other.
- Create a sexual bucket list
Chances are high that one of you has mentioned a fantasy or two if you’re in a long-term relationship. It’s time to consider and make some of those fantasies a reality. Set the mood and next time you are together, lay down to write down five things you each would want to try sexually.
There are countless sex positions, locations, kinks, and couplings to explore. So, if you’re looking to get a bit more experienced, then it’s time to sit down, write your sex bucket list and start to thick things off. Let it all out!
- Threesome and Swinger Parties
We all know that sexual life with just one man/woman can become sometimes boring and repetitive. So, what is the way out if you both are open minded enough and you want to go a little bit further? The way out that for most comes to mind is introducing a third party into your life. A lot of couples find the idea of being with two people at once very exciting.
Whether you’re a seasoned couple looking to finally invite a third party into the bedroom or if you are just looking for that first taste of a sultry threesome, there are certain things you should know to prepare for the experience. Keep an open line of communication, Establish clear boundaries Practice safe sex. It’s challenging enough to find balance with two people, and threesomes can be awkward in the attempt of getting ‘on the same page’ sexually between three participants.
Before you jump into a threesome learn if threesomes are a good idea or not! (do your research).
Start slow. Find out about the lifestyle by watching porn or browsing swinging websites with your partner to discuss and fantasize about the kind of sexual partners you may want to invite into your relationship or if you both are ready for this. .
- Try variety of acts:
- Just Oral: No fingers. No penetration. Just lips. Mouths. And tongues.
- Hair pulling: Many men are also highly responsive to scalp stimulation (especially if they’re bald).
- Be an stripper for a day: Put on something erotic or his favorite roleplay outfit, cue a sexy playlist and invite your man to be your audience.
- Mirror Sex: Seeing each other can make things a lot hotter. Mirrors allow you to see what you wouldn’t see otherwise. It’s like porn, without the camera, starring the two of you. If you have got a full-length mirror, just use it! The bathroom one or a handheld mirror to get a closer glimpse of your lover going down on you, why not? This is one can be fire right here!
Conclusion
Times are changing and if we don’t change with time, we will get nothing out of it. The traditional sexual practices are losing charm. No one wants to fuck a woman who is too passive in bed. If you want to make sure that you are a freak in bed you need to be confident in your style. You can drive your man crazy simply by opting any of the above-mentioned practices
